5 Easy Steps to Help Me Get My Girlfriend Back

By Lilly Cartas

I hear you saying “help me get my girlfriend back” – keep reading and learn. Most of the advice you find on relationships is quite extensive and a large number of it is just plain wrong or even dangerous. Now I am not an expert but I have spent a large part of my life researching the best ways and techniques to get your ex back and I have come up with 5 basic steps that will help you. These steps will not only help you get back with your girlfriend but they will help you become a better person, so that in the future your relationship can be a healthy one.

Here is how I define what I mean by an unhealthy relationship. Any relationship where abuse is present is unhealthy. This can be a sexual, emotional, verbal, or even physical abuse. It is all abusive. This means a wife who constantly berates her husband about his weight or his cooking is abusive. I say again it is all abusive.

If you stay with your spouse because you don’t have anywhere else to go, then the relationship is unhealthy and you may need to leave. These are situations you should shy away from.

Here are the steps to take to have a healthy, loving relationship with your ex:

1. Find and fix your flaws. It is much easier to see your partners flaws than your own- you need to face you own character flaws in order to have a healthy relationship. a relationship is only as strong as the people in it. Take the time to work on your character flaws- to become a better man and this will help out all areas of your life. Bottom Line- if you have some major flaws, your relationship will have some major flaws.

2. Don’t put your ex up on a pedestal and do not be afraid to see their flaws too. While you can’t use their flaws as a way to avoid facing your own, you need to understand that it is important to clearly see what both of you are like, this way it will be easier to make the changes to have a healthy relationship.

3.Give your ex plenty of space while you are making your changes. Once you’ve got to the point where you’ve made progress, probably a few months, talk to her about going on to step 4.

4. The time has come to devise a game plan to work on changing together. This is going to take some time and you both have to work on it.

5. Throughout your life make sure that you continue to move forward with positive changes. We should never stop growing and tying to improve ourselves. And don’t worry if this sounds like work, it doesn’t have to be all hard work, something as simple as taking on a new hobby can do wonders.

Help me get my girlfriend back you say, well, like any good advice, it won’t work if you don’t follow it. Good luck.

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